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Posted on 05/04/2012 by julia
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i work as a housekeeper in a hospital, it is not as glamourous as it seems. i work at night.43 rooms a night. most staff are leaving or gone when i get to work. i pass a reception area on way to my closet, and let me say, there are nice nurses. but one likes to treat me like i'm "retarded" because of my job.even before this began,she talked down too me, i knew she was very superficial,flirtacious w/ male staff, (to the point of embarassing herself) and "image" was her top priority. this is also the same woman who holds "prayergroups" during breaks, is a deacon at her church. she is, i will say, a skilled worker. but... she likes to call people out,bully. she likes to be the center of the universe.she's very territorial of this "image" she has created for herself. and if she sees you as a threat,she'll use everything in her arsenal to destroy you, your reputation. when she found out (where) i come from, a pretty affluent suburb outside of detroit, that's when i became her latest target. who cares. she's a nurse, i'm-in housekeeping.i don't have her work status, but i take pride in what i do. f.y.i. the house i grew up in was my parent's. she belittles me infront of staff, going as far as following me in hallways doing an exaggerated "retard-speak" vocal immitation of me. we have new nurses, and because of her example,they talk down to me, and make faces,exaggerated facial expressions at me, when they see me. older nurses, that i once got along with, smirk, play along to her example, probably out of fear that she would do the same to them. reporting such behavior here, i've found is futile, she has status, where as, someone from my dept, we're nothing. what hurts, is staff members who witness these events and do nothing.





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Whatever (05/04/2012)
Please don't use "retarded" in a pajorative manor. It is a diagnosis, not an insult.
The woman is a bore, please don't stoop to her level by also using insulting language.
I do hope she gets a come-upance and some point.


julia (05/05/2012)
i'm sorry for using the wrong term. i was trying to explain (what) happens. thank you for caring enough to leave a comment.

Corporate Ladder Rung: Mailroomdizzblnd (05/05/2012)
Ignore her and your other ignorant co-workers. If you can't do that, go along with her jokes and immature actions. Make fun of yourself. Once she sees that her actions aren't getting to you, she'll stop. No different than elementary and high school. If it persists, go to HR and tell them she is creating a hostile work environment. If that has no affect, keep climbing the supervisor ladder until you find someone who will actually do something about it.
Even if you think reporting her is futile, you will find someone who can help. Just be persistent. There is no reason, other than the fact that she is harboring self-hate, that she is acting like that. She obviously needs to clear up her own personal issues that she is taking out on you.


Good Luck!


Corporate Ladder Rung: CEOHaveADamnNiceDay (06/01/2012)
You have a pretty clear view into her true personal character.
The best way to know a person's character is to watch how they treat those who can do nothing for them.
It sounds to me like she is insecure about something and is making an effort to distract from it with other things, and unfortunately, you're her target. What she doesn't realize, is that without our jobs, our money, our status, what are we? We are our relationships, our character, hearts and minds.
Try to stay strong, and if you can find something better, do so!


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